I live here in Washington and my ex-husband lives in Maine.  The divorce was done in Maine. We have 3 yr and 2 yr old daughters.  Last time our children went to Maine to visit with him, my oldest came back telling me her daddys girlfriend had hit her.  The word hit really suprised me because if she had just spanked her then my daughter would have used the word spanked.  I am concerned about them going back to visit with him, I do not want my children abused and there to be nothing I can do about it.  What can I do?